“A sex worker may advertise kissing as an option, however this is always at the sex workers discretion. Please ensure good personal oral hygeine if you wish to share intimate kissing in an encounter. ”
“Some Australian escorts choose not to kiss for several reasons, including: 1. Personal Boundaries – Kissing can feel more intimate and emotionally connected than other physical activities, so some prefer to keep that boundary. 2. Hygiene & Health Concerns – Kissing increases the risk of spreading infections like colds, flu, or oral herpes. Avoiding it can be a precaution. 3. Professionalism – Some escorts separate their work from personal intimacy by reserving certain acts, like kissing, for their personal relationships. 4. Client Management – Kissing can create a deeper emotional connection, which might lead to unrealistic expectations or attachment from clients. 5. Industry Norms & Personal Comfort – Some simply don’t enjoy kissing strangers or feel more in control of their boundaries by excluding it. Each escort sets their own rules based on comfort and preference, and clients are expected to respect those boundaries.”
“For the full GFE I do like to have a bit of DFK included, but I won't let it being off the cards get in the way of a good time!!!”
“I am definitely a DFK chooser.”
“Consent and personal boundaries are so important in this industry. There are a few clients out and about that believe they can do ANYTHING and EVERYTHING to you just because they’re paying for you. There are so many reasons one might not choose to offer kissing and it should be respected and not challenged. I also believe if it is on offer, it should be at discretion and only if you’re comfortable with it. There’s nothing worse than kissing someone and the other person not being into it or it feeling forced. I do wonder if some clients can ever tell if a girl is not into it or do they not even think about it? ?♀️ ”
“Some Australian escorts choose not to kiss their clients for various reasons, including health and safety concerns, such as the risk of transmitting infections. Many prefer to maintain professional boundaries to keep the relationship purely transactional and manage their emotions better. Additionally, individual comfort levels, personal beliefs, and client preferences play a significant role in this decision. By avoiding kissing, escorts can reduce the potential for complications and misunderstandings, ensuring a clearer understanding of the services being provided. I personally think kissing makes sex so much more intimate and it can make bookings more enjoyable and memorable for both parties ”
“As a return to the sector (client) after 20 years it seems to me that kissing was never in offer whereas now it seems to be more the norm. … or maybe is it the difference of what is offered to a now reformed smoker!?”
“I'm always excited to be with a partner who loves this connection as much as I do, Kissing and being kissed back with equal passion makes for a more pleasurable experience ”
“The emphasis on consent and autonomy throughout the article is incredibly important ensuring that personal boundaries and mutual respect remain at the forefront of any interaction.”
“Personally I never expect to kiss an escort, especially not on the lips. It seems to me like that's more of a personal relationship thing to do. Occasionally escorts seem to encourage or initiate kissing with me, but it's more the exception than the rule!”
“Not to gross everyone out but an average of six billion bacteria live in the human mouth, and between 500-650 different species (most are harmless). This is why it's a personal choice to kiss and a conversation that needs to be had prior to being in the room.”
“It’s interesting to consider the personal boundaries. Each escort should have the freedom to choose what they’re comfortable with, and no one should feel pressured to go beyond their limits. I personally offer kissing but it is crucial for me that the client have a good oral hygiene. ”
“Agree with Peri Canberra! This helpful, thoughtful, and supportive blog about honouring personal preferences is appreciated. Everyone feeling valued and at ease with their decisions, whilst being respected for their preferences and personal choices, is highlighted perfectly in this post. Whether you want the "girlfriend experience" during a service or not, open communication is essential and makes every booking that much better! ”
“Great post! As a working lady, I truly appreciate the emphasis on clear communication and mutual consent. It's all about creating a safe, enjoyable experience for both parties. Always feel free to ask questions or confirm details during booking. We’re here to ensure your time is exactly what you’re looking for. ”
“It is pleasing to hear from ladies that offer and enjoy kissing. My most memorable encounters involved DFK. For me the intimacy and passion of a GFE exceeds the simple act of ejectulation. Occasionaly with a b2b massage with the right girl I can get enjoy this intimacy without FS. Thank you ladies.”
“Being a passionate guy. Kissing and Being kissed back with equal passion is a true head spin for me. I'm always super excited to be with a partner who loves this connection as much as I do ”
“It’s great to see the importance of consent and personal boundaries emphasized, especially in a context where autonomy is paramount. Kissing can be so intimate and meaningful, and this post reminds us that even small acts carry emotional weight. The practical advice on finding services and respecting individual preferences is both helpful and considerate. Ultimately, everyone deserves to feel comfortable and respected in their choices & this blog captures that perfectly. :)”
“I'll have to second Charlotte. I too offer kissing as a service however to my discretion. Since it is an intimate act having poor oral hygiene can deter me to offering it xx”
“I'll have to second Charlotte. I too offer kissing as a service however to my discretion. Since it is an intimate act having poor oral hygiene can deter me to offering it xx”
“Kissing truly is such a personal and intimate act, and it’s amazing to see how everyone in the industry respects individual boundaries. At Langtrees Canberra, we fully support our escorts in choosing what feels right for them—whether they love offering kisses or prefer to reserve that intimacy for other moments. The key is mutual respect and ensuring everyone feels comfortable. Charlotte, your point about hygiene and facial hair is so valid! It’s wonderful that you set clear boundaries for your own comfort. Blair, the dopamine fact is absolutely fascinating—it’s incredible how something as simple as a kiss can light up the brain like that! Did you know that even a 30-second hug can release oxytocin, the same 'love hormone' released during kissing? It’s proof of just how powerful touch can be, whether it’s a hug, holding hands, or even just a gentle pat on the back. Human connection through touch is so important—it doesn’t always have to be sexual. Sometimes, just the act of touch itself can provide comfort, reduce stress, and create a sense of closeness. At Langtrees, we understand and value the power of these moments, whether it’s a simple hug or a deeper connection. Whatever your experience, we’re here to ensure it’s tailored to what you need, with respect and care at the heart of everything we do. ?”
“I generally offer kissing as part of my service as it comes natural to me and I enjoy it. However there has been occasions where I have not offered it and it’s usually down to hygiene or facial hair. If a client has bad oral hygiene i won’t do it, it’s self explanatory. And then often clients will have impeccable hygiene but if they have a lot of thick facial hair I decline. I have VERY sensitive skin and it irritates me. It takes the bottom half of my makeup off and if I have to reapply it 10 times a night I’ll have a break out. So personally for me it’s not worth it sometimes. ”
“A fair point about the dopamine release when kissing, fun fact The dopamine released during a kiss can stimulate the same area of the brain activated by heroin and cocaine”